It is a SPDT relay, common automotove 30A relay.
The brown Power feed feeds the NO terminal (because when we activate the relay we want to supply power to the low beams), the low beam wire gets cut and the side going towards the front of the truck gets the COM terminal (because we either want it operating off the headlight switch when low is selected or getting its own power when hibeams are on), the NC contact will be on that cut line but headded back to the cab side because when the relay is deactivated we want that circuit to be complete.
One side of the coil gets grounded, the other gets TAPPED into the highbeam feed so when hibeams are on the relay gets activated.
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