Okay so I've gotten to drive it around for a couple days here's my best explanation, fluids are fine.
Put it into Drive, goes into 1st fine.
I can accelerate however I wish in 1st and it goes along nicely. It does not automatically go into 2nd though, I have to hit about 3-3.5k rpm, let go of gas, let rpms drop then it shifts into 2nd (it doesn't shift hard or rough)
When in 2nd I have the feather the gas very lightly, if I push the gas too much it slips out of gear and just revs up the engine, i have to let gas off to drop down rpms to a low range to get back into gear, again anytime it leaves or goes into any gear it's not rough or noisy it's smooth.
Beyond this, I have trouble getting any higher than 3rd gear.
Picked her up for $1,500, engine/exhaust sound awesome. haven't found any leaks yet but I'm keeping an eye out. I got quite a bit of work I want to do to her but this transmission issue is #1. Thanks for the suggestions so far guys, I hope this can help give a better idea of what's going on. I'll look into if I have external shift solenoids.