sounds like you were jacking up the trailing arm. that can mess with alignment a lil, but its mainly to keep the rear end from twisting under load. think of it as a stabilizer bar on each side of the truck.... as far as where to put the jack, if you crawl under the truck there is this big bar that runs from the front of the truck to the back on each side. its called the frame. thats where you want to put the jack and stands. if you get all four wheels off the ground then you should have a total of four stands at least. hope this helps..... oh and as for using the bottom shock mount to jack the rear end, you can but at the same time you risk damaging it, so y risk it when you can just use the guarantee which is frame.